TIM LAMBESIS’ Estranged Wife Reportedly Engages In ‘Shouting Match’ With Singer’s Parents

According to the ABC-TV affiliate in San Diego, California 10News (KGTV), Meggan Lambesis, the estranged wife of AS I LAY DYING frontman Tim Lambesis (pictured below), came out of hiding over Memorial Day, three weeks after her husband was arrested for allegedly hiring a hitman to kill her.

A Del Mar resident who lives in the home next door to Tim Lambesis‘ parents house told 10News there was a lot of yelling coming from inside the house on Monday. According to the neighbor, Charlene Walker, the commotion appeared to be a shouting match between Lambesis‘ dad, Nick, and Meggan.

“[Meggan] was here. The wife was here screaming at Nick, ‘It’s not about the money it’s not about the money,'” Walker said. “She just said, ‘I don’t care if all the money goes to Africa.’ She says, ‘I have my own job, I have my own money.'”

Walker added: “Now instead of the noisy neighbors I call them the crazy neighbors. I’m thinking about getting a gun. I’m kind of worried.”

Tim Lambesis posted bail yesterday (Thursday, May 30) and left the Vista Detention Facility in Vista, California.

Lambesis was arrested on May 7 on suspicion of solicitation to commit murder. He has pleaded not guilty.

The singer, who at one time has said he considered himself to be a Christian and acknowledged that he found inspiration for lyrical content from biblical texts, was taken into custody without incident at a Barnes Noble bookstore in Oceanside, California, according to San Diego Sheriff’s Department.

Lambesis had his bail lowered from $3 million to $2 million during a May 17 bail review hearing.

Prosecutors initially requested that Superior Court Judge Martin Staven set Lambesis‘ bail at $20 million, saying the singer remains “substantially motivated to kill his wife.”

Lambesis‘ defense attorney, Tom Warwick, had asked for bail of $250,000.

Warwick blamed Lambesis‘ steroid use for the alleged murder-for-hire plot. He also revealed that Lambesis was going through steroid withdrawal while in custody.

Lambesis‘ attorney said the “gym culture” led to “changes in [the singer’s] physiological and mental status,” with Tim‘s bodybuilding obsession causing him to go from 170 to 220 pounds after first taking supplements, then steroids. “[He] was not the same person. He was irritable and lost God.”

Prosecutors allege Lambesis had twice told a man at a gym that he wanted his wife killed, then met with an undercover detective known as “Red“, and gave the agent an envelope containing $1,000 in cash, photographs of his wife, and the security gate code to her house. He also allegedly told the agent the dates he would be with the couple’s three adopted children, in order to give himself an alibi.

“When specifically asked do you want her dead, he said, ‘Yes that’s exactly what I want,'” Deputy District Attorney Claudia Grasso told the judge. “The victim now is terrified and living in seclusion.”

In court, Grasso said that Lambesis did not flinch when told the hit on his wife would cost $20,000. “He was very willing to pay that,” she said, according to The San Diego Union-Tribune.

Lambesis, who was originally booked into jail on suspicion of two felonies — conspiracy and murder-for-hire — was ordered to wear a GPS monitor and turn in his passport and was warned by the judge that he must stay away from his immediate family. The conspiracy charge was dropped before Lambesis was arraigned.

Meggan filed papers in September 2012 in San Diego Superior Court seeking a dissolution of the couple’s marriage.

 

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